Ladies still at losing side

Heard a lot of relationship failure lately. 3 of my friends who went through divorce in less than 3 years of marriege. The 1st one is have a relationship with a china girl during job posting. His wife caught him, and she file a divorce. 2nd one married for 2 years and got tired with his wife simple one reason, because she's not attractive and file a divorce. The 3rd one, after 3 months of marriege, they got divorce because his wife was too demanding and he bash her up...and all of them are only 31 years old.

Marriege suddenly become so fragile, so easy to break, just like a piece of glass. and yes, I admit it's all men's fault. Loyalty is no longer there. This is a wake up call where life is heading to nowhere. They can act like if nothing's happen. the day where wedding dinners are held, telling the world how much they love each other, the very next day, they file for divorce.

I'm not a believer in divorce neither do I want to advice them. They are matured enough to learn. Choosing a life partner is difficult. Some men are just bf material, while some are husband material. Men with bf material can be romantic, smooth talking but all they wanna do is just have fun. As for guys with husband material, might be loyal however they are boring, not romantic.

I just pity their ex-wife whereby no matter what happen, ladies still at the losing side...what did the three words mean to you..."i love you"..